Comments on: Disaster

By: esperanza

esperanza — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 17:26:21 +0000

ugh!!! i'm sorry for your situation…i've been there and almost everyone has!! Stay postive and know you are NOT a failure!!

By: Yvonne

Yvonne — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 07:19:49 +0000

Wow, I did not see that one coming. ;(
The interest is there. Though this does explain why he wasn't (physically!) jumping all over you.
I know I would not be a happy girl if my (theoretical) boyfriend was enjoying another lady's company as much as Mr. Darcy enjoys yours – even if physically platonic. (Definite fuzzy borders!)
{hugs}

By: Stacie

Stacie — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 03:54:16 +0000

I am so sorry! Now I feel like crying

By: gingercorsair

gingercorsair — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 03:08:46 +0000

Thanks everyone, for your comments and support. I never could have imagined there were so many wonderful people out there on the interwebs…

I do feel some of the stress has lifted; I am glad that at least I know now.

But I'm still so puzzled by it all. Everyone I spoke to about this (seriously I have like, 25 opinions on this!) all seemed to think that he was into me. Even my male friend thought it was a sure thing.

And here he's had a girlfriend the whole time. I mean, what is up with that!?

I guess I'll still go ahead with the coffee since I've made the invitation already. I just hope I can handle it and get something positive out of it. I still really like the guy…I just don't like these mixed signals and the fact he's not single.

And yes, I cried an ugly cry. You know the type.

By: FabulouslyBroke.com

FabulouslyBroke.com — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 01:55:49 +0000

Oh no I am so sorry!!! What happened? *hug* We had such an awesome plan, all the signals and a beautiful girl to boot…

By: Rina

Rina — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 01:45:28 +0000

*hugs* I'm so sorry hun.

By: CanadianSaver

CanadianSaver — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 01:14:16 +0000

I'm really sorry to hear this, Ginger {{{hugs}}}

Crying will make you feel better…

By: The Asian Pear

The Asian Pear — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 00:53:36 +0000

awwwh. I'm sorry to hear that Ginger.

Mr. Darcy REALLY is not clear on his signals though then! Nothing seemed to indicate that he was dating.

But at least now you know… Like others have mentioned… You won't be wondering later what if. You were brave. You took a risk. Be proud of that.

By: soveryfabulous

soveryfabulous — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 23:53:45 +0000

Aw, I'm really sorry. *hugs*

By: krystalatwork

krystalatwork — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 22:02:34 +0000

You're allowed to cry! I'm so sorry to hear that. Agreed with eemusings … at least now you know and there are no more 'what if' moments. I heart you!